Help us welcome Mistress Esme, an amazing Dominatrix based in England!
1) Can you share with us a bit about your background and any info about your ethnic heritage?
There isn't much to my so called back ground. I am Black British.
2) So how did you begin to get involved in the BDSM scene?
I begun when I was 19. I was lifestyle up until the last 12 months. That is when I decided to go Pro.
3) Some people claim that to be a top domina, you must have been on the other side of the fence and have gone through sessions as a submissive; what are your views on that (concerning your own experience and your colleagues')?
I do think that you need to try both sides. I have tried being sub once and it was not for me. Now when I get that same old question of how do you know you aren't submissive, which is generally from some sleazy Dom, I can say because I have tried it and it wasn't for me.
4) What can you tell us about The Black Whip, your Femdon/BDSM Club?
It's a club for submissives to come and appreciate Black Domme's in every form.
5) When the time comes for promotional photo shoots, what do you look for to express in your work? What are for you the best qualities a photographer can have?
Creating magic. I hate taking pics so if they can create a good picture then more power to them as the camera is not my friend.
6) In your view, what’s the worst behavioral trait that a domme can have?
I don't like Dommes who feel they are to be in Domme mode all the time.
7) You have many favorite interests on your Services web page… but could you point out your own Top 3 Ultimates?
Well I won't give my top 3 but the thing I love the most is anal play in all it's forms. Strap on, fisting, etc.
8) Are there individuals that you would say inspired (and still inspires) you in your work?
Other Dommes do. There are some who have been in the business for years and have created such a buzz and following. That is where I want to get too.
9) Are there many people applying for a BDSM session with you that still surprise you with their demands? Or do you have to often reach into your own personal imagination to keep things fresh and stimulating?
I do get some request which might raise an eyebrow; however I am a professional and deal with it.
10) Interestingly, many people think that Dominas based in England are trendsetters and world-expert in physical discipline… why is it so?
I don't know. There are loads of Dommes who are fantastic and they aren't based in the UK.
11) Is there a common psychological trait uniting male subs seeking out well-curved Dominas?
The ones who like BBW are generally lovers of Queening/facesitting.
12) Do you get to travel a lot for your activities? Any chance of you making a Canadian tour and visiting us in Montreal?
Yes I travel. Funnily enough, Canada is somewhere that I go. I am due a trip to Montreal as well. You never know, maybe later this year.